A Reflection from Hoi An by Kass Ferm

 Reflections from Hoi An

By Kass Ferm

9 February 20225

Currently, I find myself in Hoi An, Vietnam, living a juxtaposition of experiences as a full-time online student studying biology at the University of Alaska. My academic journey involves deep dives into genetics, fish biology, anatomy, and organic chemistry—all while weaving together writing that connects it all. As I immerse myself in my studies, I am enchanted with coffee—my day is quite literally structured around visiting cafes twice a day. There, I hunker down with my schoolwork, indulging in various americanos, savouring the rich, pure taste of black coffee. 

Coffee Shop in Da Lat, Vietnam

Food is another part of my routine that I’ve come to cherish with newfound appreciation. After battling anorexia in the past, I’m now focused on strength and muscle gain. My meals reflect this commitment; just yesterday, I relished chicken saag, a delightful Indian dish brimming with the lush, green flavours of spinach and tender chicken cubes immersed in a fragrant spice blend. For dinner, a grilled chicken burger accompanied by slaw, tomato, lettuce, and mustard made the feast complete. And for a late-night snack, I enjoyed two cans of tuna flakes in spring water combined with low-fat yoghurt. These choices fuel my passion for nutrition and understanding of the mind-gut connection.

Grilled Chicken in Hoi An, Vietnam

Determined to gain strength, I’ve crafted a unique workout routine: I hop into the bathroom at cafes and eatery spots to do squats and jumping jacks. Each rhythmic contraction of my muscles mirrors the vibrant atmosphere around me, a joyful dance of resilience amid the flavours and aromas. While I deeply value this structured approach, I often wonder if it contributes to my sense of isolation. My healthy lifestyle—not drinking, eating cleanly, and avoiding drugs—sometimes creates a barrier to connecting with others. For example, someone in Vung Tau advised me to lean into a bit more flexibility, suggesting that it might propel me forward. Yet, I see my structure as a pillar of my success. I tackle assignments efficiently; if coursework is available, I complete it, regardless of the due date. I pride myself on being the opposite of a procrastinator—but in prioritizing these tasks, I sometimes overlook personal connections.

In parallel with my studies, I have experienced a profound awakening in my faith over the past year. I find joy in prayer, walking with the Lord, and listening to worship music as I navigate new landscapes. Podcasts exploring faith and scripture fill my ears, and I embrace the opportunity to attend local churches, even venturing into Catholic masses while travelling. This connection fuels my desire for community as I prepare for my next adventure in Ho Chi Minh City, where I aim to find an English-speaking Protestant church. Connecting with others who share my faith—especially in a world filled with differing opinions—feels essential.

                                                                Church in Da Lat, Vietnam

I imagine meeting a Christian man—a fellow backpacker who loves the Lord—who would read the Bible, pray with me, and share that deeply grounded commitment to living life celibately. It would be a remarkable gift. Amid our cultural and political divides, conversations with my generation often feel more complex, mired in cancellation and misunderstanding. Yet, my travels have shown me how intoxicating it is to engage with diverse perspectives.

 Protestant Church in Bali, Indonesia

Having visited over 40 countries, I’ve learned that understanding others often cultivates growth. Conversations with people from Japan, Thailand, Vietnam, and beyond have made me rethink how I view the world—especially after shedding the liberal propaganda that often clouds perspectives in the United States. The intricacies of life demand a more profound understanding.

Japanese Catholic Church in Osaka

In contemplating the messages of Jesus, I often reflect on Matthew 22:37-39, where He emphasizes the essence of love: “Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.” This directive doesn’t merely call us to love those we agree with; it urges us to extend grace and understanding to everyone we encounter, reminding us that true love transcends borders. This fundamental principle of love reiterates what it means to connect on a human level.

Catherine Church in Stockholm

Mark 12:28-34 reinforces this sentiment, declaring that loving our neighbour is the second greatest commandment—right after loving God with all our heart, soul, and mind. This calls us to worship and express this love through our actions and attitudes toward others. The parable of the Good Samaritan in Luke 10:25-37 illustrates this beautifully, showing us that a neighbour can be anyone, regardless of background or belief, who is in need. Love compels us to reach out, to lend a hand, and to truly see those around us.

Humble Filipino Church Near Cebu

1 John 1:7 encourages us to “walk in the light,” fostering a culture of openness and honesty within our communities. It’s a gentle reminder that meaningful connections can only flourish when we let down our walls and create a space for sincerity. Galatians 6:2 challenges us to bear one another's burdens, illustrating the beauty of shared empathy. In a life marked by difference and complexity, God’s message invites us to come together, share our stories and learn from one another, cultivating a bond rooted in compassion.

Southwark Cathedral in London

Reflecting on these teachings, I recognize my journey toward compassion. They suggest that I should be less isolated in my strict routines and more receptive to the lives swirling around me. We are all human beings made in God's image, each deserving of understanding and kindness. 1 Peter 4:10 exhorts us to use our gifts to serve others, reflecting the heart of God’s love in action.

Saint Nikolas Russian Church in Bulgaria

To everyone who encounters this message: remember that you are profoundly loved and graciously forgiven by the Father, a source of hope and renewal. Let us take a moment to pause, reflect deeply, and draw wisdom from the rich tapestry of each other’s unique journeys. As we cultivate an awareness of the beautiful diversity that God has woven into our world, we can open our hearts and reach out with compassion. In doing so, we not only uplift our own spirits but also contribute to the creation of a brighter, more compassionate future for all. Together, we can inspire one another and build a community rooted in love and understanding.